my family and i have been here on fort riley since 2006 and i dont talk to many people because i get worried about getting caught up in drama. there is only one person i talk to, and that is my neighbor, i trust her. the other reason is because i had one friend that was cheating on her husband while he was deployed and it just makes me upset to see women do that to there spouse that is fighting for our country, and i never thought she would be that type of person until i walked in on her doing this....i then cut that friendship off real quick. would you have cut the friendship off too? thats why im so scared to meet other army wives. i mean its not just some armywives its others too, but still. 

oh yes! i would have cut her off in a heartbeat! 

If your a cheater than your a cheater no matter what your husband does for a living. I don't know what I would do if my friend was cheating on her husband I doubt I would stop being her friend but I would def keep my distance from her and make sure she knew I didn't approve of what she was doing. I know some people may say they would tell the spouse but you never know what may happen to you in the end alot of people will get even with you for sticking your nose where it doesn't belong. My grandmom always said "everything always comes out in the wash" she was a very wise old lady..lol.. 

Yes I would have cut off that friendship in a heartbeat. It would only lead to trouble when it all comes out and why include ones self in that. 

If your a cheater than your a cheater no matter what your husband does for a living Amen to that. 

well i just pretty much quit hangin out with her, i didnt say anything to her, she kept telling me that she was sorry and i told her, she need to tell her hubby she is sorry...not me. but to make a long story short i think she moved back home. 

jennie-It would only lead to trouble when it all comes out and why include ones self in that. thats why i stoped talking to her, b/c i didnt need the drama. 

thank you for everyones opinion, have a goodnight.